Questions. So many Unanswered Questions.

I just had a long conversation on the terrace with a friend.
The terrace on a starless summer night.
Brings out philosphy out of you in its own magical way.
 And we talked.
About life and the uncertainty that it brings along with it.
About law school which squeezes all the juice out of you or at least shows you how much can be sqeezed out of you.
About upbringing and how it gives you a choice- to be the person your world wants you to be or to be the person you want to be.
We talked of how the +1 in our equilibrium will affect our ability to take objective decisions.
And wondered if we'd be able to stay in love with one person for the rest of our lives.
We said our deepest fears out loud. A failed marriage? A disabled child. We made our fears real.
We looked around and judged the place life has brought us to one more time and laughed at our inability to conceive what the place shall make of us in five years.
will these thoughts and revelations and our understanding of them change anything in our life.

unanswered questions. fear.
Is it that we are bound by destiny?